THOMAS
NELSON
SOLDIER
& STATESMAN
How
often does one get to have a chat with a descendant of one of the signers of
the Declaration of Independence? For me, it was a rare,
informative, and very enjoyable experience.
Two
years ago, I got to know a delightful lady, Poppet Nelson, through my Bible
study class. She shared with me that she and her husband Tom had recently
bought and were operating The Marl Inn, a Bed and Breakfast, in Yorktown, VA. Most folks probably wouldn't do a double take as I did, but having a love of American history, I
think I chuckled and said something like, “You’re married to Thomas Nelson of Yorktown . . . sure.” Thomas
Nelson is a familiar name around the Old Dominion. A county in Virginia, and another in Kentucky, and a college in Virginia are all named after
him.
Poppet
responded cheerfully, “Yes, Tom is a direct descendant of Thomas Nelson, the
signer of the Declaration of Independence”.
How
interesting that this couple, related to Yorktown’s favorite son, had
returned to the very village where the Nelson family first settled when they
came to the colonies from Great Britain in the latter part of
the 17th century. I hoped then I would one day be able to meet her
husband. That opportunity came recently when I visited the Nelsons at their
B&B in Yorktown.
Thomas
Nelson Jr. is well known to historians as one of the signers of the Declaration
of Independence. His family resided in Yorktown, known as York until the Revolution,
from the early 1700’s and they had a long history of service to our country. Thomas
Nelson Jr. was a member of the Virginia House of Burgesses, he was elected to
the Continental Congress, and he was one of the first Congressmen to favor
independence. General Nelson commanded the Virginia Militia under George
Washington at the Siege of Yorktown, and served as Virginia’s third Governor.
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Young Thomas Nelson Jr. by unknown artist |
Since
then I've learned more about Thomas Nelson Jr. He was born into the Virginia aristocracy in 1738 to
William Nelson and Elizabeth Burwell at Yorktown VA. Both of his parent’s
family lines can be traced back to the nobility and royalty of England. His grandfather
“Scotch Tom” Nelson came to Virginia in 1690 and became a
successful merchant. When Thomas Nelson Jr. was fourteen he went to England, first to a private
school and later to study at Cambridge. Shortly after
returning to York he married Lucy Grymes,
who was also related to several of our Founding Fathers. Together they had
eleven children.
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| Thomas Nelson House |
“Scotch
Tom” built Nelson House around 1730 which still stands. The William Nelson
house was built later and was considerably larger, but it was burned down in
1814. Both of these large brick homes were in the early Georgian architectural style,
very popular during the eighteenth century.
During
the siege of Yorktown in 1781, Thomas Nelson
Jr. ordered his home be fired upon, thinking that General Cornwallis had made it
his headquarters.
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Ebb Pate's painting based on
footprint and description of the
William Nelson House |
Thomas
Nelson Jr. was a man of considerable wealth and he owned thousands of acres of
property throughout the colony, yet he used his personal fortune to subsidize
the patriot cause. His family was never compensated. At several times during
Nelson’s service to Virginia and the country he had
to step aside for a time due to ill health. When it improved he returned to
serve. Nelson died of asthma at the age of fifty-one. He is buried at Grace
Church in Yorktown near his father and
grandfather.
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John Trumbull's painting of
The Surrender at Yorktown |
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close-up of Thomas Nelson (left)
in Trumbull's Surrender at Yorktown |
John Trumbull, the
famous Revolutionary War era painter, features Thomas Nelson in his painting of
the signing of the Declaration of Independence and Cornwallis’s Surrender at Yorktown.
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Grave of Thomas Nelson Jr. Grace Episcopal Church |
The writings of Thomas
and Lucy’s daughter reveal that the Nelson families were very active members of
Grace Episcopal Church located within walking distance of their homes. Lucy
Nelson, a pious woman, spent hours a day studying the Scriptures and in prayer.
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Poppet & Thomas Nelson at the Marl Inn, Yorktown |
As we visited in the
Nelson’s living room, Poppet and Tom told me that while they were in England, where Poppet is from,
they were visiting a beautiful old church, St. Andrew’s in Penrith. While Tom
was studying the information about his Nelson relatives who had lived and
attended services there, Poppet noticed that some of the lovely stained glass
windows were gifts from her own family, who she discovered were also
parishioners. Small world!
Alas, Tom and Poppet are
relocating to an area near Charlottesville, VA and their charming Bed
and Breakfast in this quaint and historic town is currently for sale. They are
a lovely and fascinating couple and I wish them well in this next season of
their life.